Serious Life Update

 "Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around. Life is too short to waste your time on people who don't respect, appreciate, and value you. Spend your life with people who make you smile, laugh, and feel loved." (Roy T. Bennett)

 

Hello, my lovely friends!

 

 Well, it’s been a while since we just chatted about things that are going on in my life. There’s a lot that has been going on and it’s time to give you all an update on that.

 

      The big update is that I had a mammogram last week and they found a lump in my left breast. The last time it was my right and now we’re it’s the left side. I’m not going to lie and admit I’m scared about it this time. Why is it the other one now? That what has me worried more than anything now. I’m scheduled to have my second screening in a couple of weeks. My mom tells me not to worry because if it was really bad they would have me come in right away. So, I’m trying to stay positive with it until I know. Either way I have decided that whatever is in me has to go again. I’m not keeping something around that could or could not be something. I am worried about it, but I’m trying not to let it consume me and my thoughts. I had an appointment set up for yesterday to do the second screening, but it got rescheduled for the end of the month. So, now I have to wait a few weeks, but staying positive about it.

 

      Last month I injured my right knee. Remember when I fell out of the car and hurt my knee? It’s the same knee. I was working out and decided to stretch my legs and I bent my leg back and I felt a little jolt of pain. I paid no attention and kept doing my thing, I woke up the next morning and was in a lot of pain. I could barely walk. So I stayed off of it for a week and it helped out so much. I guess now I just have a bum knee that if turned the wrong way will have a reaction. Right now I can walk normal and walk on the treadmill, but going up and down the stairs I take it slow and step on each step. It no longer hurts only when I’m on my legs too long it’ll ache some.

 

      My mom is doing well. She always has pain, but is taking things to help with it. Her other kneed is bothering her now and she’s thinking of doing replacement surgery on that in September. My sister will also come out to help me out again and she can stay almost a month this time. Her health seems to be good for now. She’s been doing everything they’ve told her to do and it’s been really good for her. Tomorrow she goes to her kidney doctor and we’ll find out more info then.

 

 

       The online relationship is going really well. So, a little bit about him… His name is Mike and he is younger than me. This was not something I was looking for, but we’ve been friends for a while and just started to get to know each other better. I feel so comfortable around him. We are with each other from the moment we wake up till we go to sleep. We shat about everything and nothing. I feel really good about this. We’ve talked on the phone and things just get better and better. I’m really happy with how things are going.

     

 

Thank you so much for stopping by today.

I wish you a good morning, afternoon or evening wherever you are.

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