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Sunday, August 31, 2025

Sunday Chat


 "Open your eyes to the beauty around you, open your mind to the wonders of life, open your heart to those who love you, and always be true to yourself." (Maya Angelou)

 

Hello, my lovely friends!

 

 It's hard to believe we're already heading into the final stretch of August. It feels like 2025 just began, and now we're staring down the last few months of the year. The good news is the holiday season is just around the corner, and I'm really looking forward to it. There are a few surprises planned, which makes it even more exciting.


    It's been an emotional week. Wednesday, my mom had a biopsy on her back. While her main doctor was hoping to rule out TB, that test came back negative, so now we're waiting for the next round of results to come in. It's frustrating to be in a holding pattern, but it's a relief to know that the doctors are actively working on finding a solution. We're hoping for some answers soon. 
My mom is feeling better, but the pain is a persistent part of her journey. Still, she's focused on what's next and is ready to embrace a new, less painful chapter. She's a real trooper.

 

    Mike's still coming for Halloween, which is a relief. I was concerned he might have to cancel since his stepdad passed away peacefully last Saturday.

 

    His stepdad was so young, just 62, and had been struggling with his health all year. After a gallbladder removal, he developed a severe infection, and sadly, they discovered he had pancreatic cancer that was already spreading. The infection prevented him from receiving chemo, and he'd been in and out of the hospital since February. It's been an emotional and draining time for his mom and sisters, but they've all rallied together as a family to be by his side every day.

 

     Mike's been in a similar situation to mine, taking care of his mom who has a disability while also working. I told him we could wait until next year, but his family is pushing him to take a week off. After all his hard work, he deserves a break.

 

 So glad you stopped by! Wishing you the coziest morning/afternoon/evening ahead. Can't wait for our paths to cross again!

 

 

 

 

 

4 comments:

  1. Yes, one does need a break when one is in full caretaking mode and Mike's family is really good pushing him to take some time away. It will be a wonderful treat for you both. I bet you are both excited. Hope things get better for your mom, the hurry up and wait when it comes to medical stuff is so frustrating. Huge hugs

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  2. Waiting is nerve wracking. I hope the doctors are able to find the cause all her pain and then a solution
    Looking forward to all the holiday surprises. Halloween holds a special "treat" for you. πŸŽƒ
    Blessings for the week ahead. πŸ™πŸΌπŸ₯°❤️

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  3. It's Kathy. Yes, waiting for results on anything is difficult. Hopefully you'll get a good report. I'm sorry to hear about Mike's stepfather. My niece just passed away from pancreatic cancer - she was only 55 years old and they had discovered it less than 6 months ago. I'm glad he is still coming for Halloween - you both need the break!

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  4. Yes, it is definitely hard to believe that August is ending and Fall is knocking on the front door.

    Sorry for your Mom’s pain, but it’s good that she’s getting some answers. Most important.

    How lovely that you’ll have a visit from Mike over Halloween. Something so special to look forward to!

    So sorry to hear about Mike’s father passing. It is good, though, that they all rallied around to support each other through the transition.

    Hope you have a peaceful Labor Day weekend.

    Hugs and blessings
    Barb
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